Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Times of Transition

The last few weeks the Harris household has been in the process of migrating from Austin, TX to Houston. We are extremely excited about all the God has in store for us as we join the Second Baptist family and begin to pray some bold prayers for the students in Kingwood!

I just spent the last 2 days with some of the Youth Staff at Second in Birmingham, AL. During that time did some reflection on what I have learned so far in this time of transition. (still much more learning to come!) Here is what I have found:

1. Leave Well: Many of my mentors have shared with me during this process to be sure to take time and make some final solid investments in those I have poured into over the past few years. Take friends to lunch, remind students and their parents how much you cherish them, affirm your friends on staff, and thank those over you in leadership. Be intentional, be affirming, and remind them you are still interested in their lives well beyond your location in their city. Don't burn bridges.
2. Protect Your Family: You're not the only one in transition. Be sure to give you family extra special attention because you are not the only one in limbo. Everyone is changing homes, saying goodbye to friends, and shifting schools. It's a great time for Dad to draw near to the wife and kids and bond the family together.
3. Practice Patience: It takes time to transition, and that's after you've taken the time to get a clear message from God on the direction you need to go. Be patient - trust His timing.
4. Be a Learner: When a new leader derails, failure to learn is almost always a factor. Listen, observe, hear what others have to say before you speak up to much. You can learn a great deal that will help you later as you lead if you will listen. Effective learning calls for figuring out what you need to learn, and Efficient learning means identifying the best available sources of insight.

back from Bama,
Brian

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