Recently I have been talking with many parents who are increasingly shocked by the things their teens are involved in either online or on their cell phones. Technology is moving faster than many parents can keep up. If you are the parent of a teenager I strongly recommend this issue of "parenting their technology" becomes a focus for you - your teen deserves your parenting in this area.
What should we do? (3 quick thoughts)
1. Same old song—Stay vigilant. I am still amazed that parents allow their teenagers to have a computer in their room. Parents, you have to encourage your teenager to practice safe Internet usage and hold them accountable to the standards you set. Chief among all Internet safety practices is to never provide identifying information. Remember, even innocent exchanges of information with a trusted friend on Facebook can be traced, leading to unwanted attention from predators.
2. Acknowledge the importance of and strive to remain informed of the important role social networking and video entertainment plays in the life of teenagers. A lot of fear is generated from a lack of education concerning the Internet and its use. Related to this is the tension caused when adults attempt to downplay the significance of the Internet with teens. Parents, even though it may not make sense to you, acknowledge that social networking occurs for teenagers in cyberspace and attempt to remain educated on the sites your teenager is visiting. Education takes the fear away and gives you more control over usage.
3. Encourage your teen to take a technology fast. Okay, this has to be done by the entire family to work, but it really can be a blessing. Develop a plan and find a day or series of days in which all technology is declared off limits. It will be awkward at first, but imagine the peace and refreshment that will come from placing all phones, computers, TVs, radios, iPods, etc. in the off position.
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Go get 'em!
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